Hi everyone. 2 weeks ago hubbie got very cross with son, very wound up shouting etc. I think son didnt say please or something i had to try to calm hubbie it was awful. Very sensitive man etc. Son aged 21. During the night i had increasing pain on left side of chest. I suffer from asthma damaged lungs anyway, on lots of medication.I felt terrible and ended up leaving son at home whilst i went to out of hours hospitel doctor, lucky he was there.Doctor was going to keep me in and tested oxygen levels etc. More antibiotics etc.The pain was so bad it was also thought it might be my heart and i was told to comr back if i felt worse. I put it down to the previous nights stress and now i know i have to change things but dont know how. Hubbie owns house and all i have are our benefits.
I have found a place where i would love to live and son is going back to college there again next week after refusing to go back , all is now well again for him, his final year there.
I know i have to make things less stressful but like many carers dont know how. Hugs to everyone tonight and every night xxxx