Hubby is having a procedure tomorrow which he has to be under general anaesthetic for, yesterday he said he wasn't feeling well so i told him if he still didn't feel well today he needed to tell me asap so i could cancel his procedure because they won't do it if he's not well. This morning he told me AGAIN he's not feeling well so i asked how and he started shouting at me that i'm not cancelling his procedure. And won't tell me what's wrong. And that he's tired. Or his back hurts. So now i don't know what to do. If he IS coming down with something it's going to make tomorrow bad because either he'll have the procedure and something could go wrong or we'll go to the hospital at 7 in the morning only to be turned away. He said 'he doesn't want to start shouting at me at 10am over this' but i think i'm being reasonable here. If he's sick he has to deal with the fact he can't have his procedure tomorrow. And he might have to wait a few weeks to get another one, we have to call later today anyway to make sure the bed is still there so if he is poorly this is the best time to tell them. He also always has a coffee in the morning to wake up its his routine but yesterday and today he's not had any. I know it sounds silly but he ALWAYS has coffee it's like his life blood i swear, so him not wanting it doesn't bode well either really. Looks like he's going to be in a foul mood today as well....yay