My son Cian aged 20 came to live with me and my hubbie of 12 years after several years with his dad. My hubbies " county" family didnt want to know and regarded him as a drain on hubbies finances etc but only 2 of them ever met him.There is abig wedding coming up and Cian is not invited. My hubbie wishes to go with his sister-to whom he is very close although she is married and lived abroad for many years- and his cousins etc.He tells me that i should stay behind to lookafter Cian, because he wont be welcome, actually neither was i!They saw me as agold digging divorcee but again only 2 of them ever spoke to me and no one has bothered to get to know us. Fortunatley Cian doesnt realise how they are. I also have other children i can never get to see. My hubbie is fuming at his percieved loss of freedom wanting to go where and when but seeing Cian as "that boy".
I m taking Cian to football tournement today, he plays for his country at football and cricket learning disability, he is afabulous goalkeeper.Im just asking for abit of support thats all. Hubbie married for the first time aged 55,me, and i think his family felt i wasnt good enough for him.
Hugs and best wishes today to everyone. Keep well and safe xx